Tuesday, May 29, 2012

The Only way a sissy should be allowed to "masturbate"

Once in chastity, this is the only type of masturbation a sissy should ever be allowed to do--if of course given permission by her Daddy. Here is the slutty Yuki Cross from xhamster...


While i should perhaps first discuss sissies and our general relation to BDSM and feminization, this sissy very much feels compelled to speak about chastity.

In my humble opinion, i believe that the key for a Master to really dominate, control, and own a sissy is to control its sissy-clit. The overwhelming majority of sissies will probably agree that post-orgasm is when a sissy sinks deepest into male-thinking delusion. We sometimes feel ashamed and promise to try and suppress our natural submissive sissiness. It is my humble opinion that this is a mistake that a lot of Doms make--allowing their sissy to cum after every scene. Again, doing this only allows us sissies possibly think we are actually men!

The clear answer is chastity. By controlling a sissy's clit, you control how many orgasms (if any) she is allowed to have. In addition to preventing any male-delusions, chastity can keep sissies in a constant state of arousal. And as many of all of us already know, when a is lustful, wonton, and sex-crazed she is also at her most obedient and submissive state. Chasity is also a very humiliating state for a sissy to be in; and as i will probably discuss in a later entry, humiliation is deeply arousing for most sissies.

So if a sissy is in proper chastity and has a regular regiment of punishment and humiliation, it will only add to the sexual frustration and pain the sissy experiences--and further humiliation and shame. i call this a downward spiral of humiliation, frustration, and submission. The more the humiliation, the more the sissy will want to please and serve he Master. The more her Master uses her, the more sexual frustrated she becomes. The more frustrated she becomes, the more abuse, degradation, and humiliation she will endure just for the possibility of release--which then makes her more obedient and submissive, and so on and on. This condition is an amazing tool for any Master to use to truly break and own a sissy.

Now obviously the terms and length of chastity are completely up to the sissy' owner. But the perfect sissy should be in 24/7 chastity for the rest of her life as a sissy-slave. And once locked up, she should never again be allowed to have a real orgasm ever again, or even lay a finger on her bare clit for that matter. This means that the sissy should be allowed to be milked or milk herself maybe twice a month (more or less depending on the sissy) and when unlocked for inspection or cleaning, she should be properly restrained. To torture the sissy even more, the Master can tease or even edge the sissy periodically and then lock her again with no relief. Within a month or so, this condition of strict chastity and denial should transform a man's sissy into a submissive, lustful fuck-doll.

Remember, a sissy's purpose in life is to serve Men. Their pleasure and amusement is a sissy's only priority. You do not know how much it upsets me when i see supposed "sissy" stroke her clit when being fucked by a Man. Here in the link below is an excellent video example of how a properly locked sissy should please Men (i know the music sucks!)


What is a sissy?

As most of you know, there really is not a definitive description what we call a sissy.

According to Wikipedia:

A sissy is a genetic male who crossdresses, adopts hyper-feminine behaviors, and engages in stereotypical "feminine" activities (e.g. housekeeping, putting on make-up), often within the context of BDSM. Particularly within the BDSM community, a "sissy" will typically assume the submissive role to a dominant female and/or male partner(s).

In many respects, i agree with this description. However, there are disagreements as it is such a widely applied term. In my humble opinion, to be a sissy, first you must be a genetic male who adopts, or is striving to adopt, a feminine image--meaning that they are or want to look like what a traditional woman in their society looks like and to a certain degree acts like. Secondly, a sissy must have a "sissy clit". Whether it is a fully functioning penis, or after castration (chemical or surgical) a vestigial and utterly limp cock, a true sissy must be constantly reminded of how she is not a man or woman but something completely different and in many ways pathetic (as in a later blog, i will discuss the need and impact of chastity on a sissy-slave). This requirement pretty much disqualifies post-op transsexuals form being classified as a sissy. And third, a sissy MUST be a 100% bottom submissive. Shemales who fuck guys in porn, or in the personal life, are not sissies. Nor are mtf (male-to-female) transvestites who top, or even just penetrate, their partners are not sissies. In adopting feminine characteristic, sissies adopt the most traditional approach of the passive feminine role during sex. The Man is in charge, you are there for His pleasure. And in that feminine role, you may only derive pleasure from your "pussy" or ass through Him penetrating you. A sissy should not ever have the opportunity, or even desire to use its sissy clit to penetrate anything.

Which will bring me to the next topic that i believe is essential in becoming the perfect sissy...chastity.

In the meantime, enjoy a picture of myself in a proper offering position to be taken by a Real Man.

Thursday, May 24, 2012


Hello, this sissy is named lexi. This blog will be about what the perfect, or at least ideal, sissy is and should be. It is this sissy's hope that this blog will offer guidance to all sissies and those who train and own them on how a sissy should look, act, speak, move, and think.

First, some editorial notes:

1) This sissy believes that ideally, sissies should not speak in first person. When referring to oneself, a sissy should say for example "sissy", "this sissy" or if owned and allowed to speak to its Master, then "your sissy" is probably the most appropriate. However, for the purpose of practicality, this sissy may use "i" when referring to itself due to the difficulty of writing in such a manner--particularly when using inclusive/plural first person pronouns such as "we" or "us" (here i will use traditional grammar and not the "W/we" or "U/us" used by some in the BDSM community).

Why speak in such a manner, and why does this sissy use "it" and not her or she when referring to itself or other sissies. First, it is used as a means of control that a Real Man or Master/Daddy can exert over his property. Controlling his sissy's speech adds a unique psychological layer to his dominance over his slave. The second reason leads us the note.

2) sissies are below regular Men and Women. i would say that they are even subhuman in a sense, but i will avoid using such a term that carries so many negative historical connotations. A proper sissy will never procreate, what science calls a penis i call a "sissy clit". It is almost utterly worthless to other. Its only uses include receiving abuse, a source of ridicule, and a means to control a sissy's behavior. The only purpose of a sissy is to serve and be used. It is an object for whatever use its owner sees fit--one does not refer to an object as he or her. Calling and having a sissy refer to itself in such as a manner also serves to reinforce as a constant reminder of the sissy's role in life. Again, i might in the future refer to sissies as either it or she/her for ease of writing or to avoid confusion.

Thanks for reading my first entry. This sissy will post her first really entry as soon as possible. i was think it might be an attempt to define what a sissy is...

If you are wondering, the pics are of me. i am a sissy in my 20s, 5'5" and about 129 pounds.